Wednesday, 4 November 2009

重新 • 出發

遇到挫折,失敗,不如意事時,也許就如亦舒說患癌症和失戀那樣,有四個步驟的反應:

一,痛哭。
二,憤怒,否認事實。
三,絕望消沉。

最後,當事人不是死亡,就會康復。

不要誤會,我可沒想過結束或摧殘自己的生命;但大概人們都這樣的經歷過,嚴重程度因人而異,最後的選擇也是。

既然改變不了,也只能接受現實。人生有高有低才有趣吧。事過境遷,與其原地踏步,倒不如向前看,it's time to move on,我是真的這樣想。之前用了無 internet 為藉口,沒給很多親朋好友的關心和慰問回復,我認我是有一點點的逃避,所以十分對不起,也容許我懶惰地在這跟你們說聲謝謝!知道有這麼多人關心和支持自己,感覺... 正呀!哈哈!感謝你們的正能量給我快速充電!

同樣地,我這個 Blog,我的小 Project 也因此久未更新,可我沒想過放棄它;現在事情大都重上軌道,我也給它一個新開始,重新出發,定期更新!



現成邀大家做我的監督,定期 「檢查」!謝謝!

p.s. 「顛倒夢想」這首歌令我想了很多, 林夕這次幫 Juno 寫的三首詞 (生死疲勞, 顛倒夢想,弱水三千), 絕可以文學作品來欣賞,夕爺果然是夕爺。右邊有 youtube link,有時間,請細味!

8 comments:

Unknown said...

Hi Karen,

Good to hear from you. Very touched with your blog. Also made me evaluate my own issues. Stop reading Yik Soo, its too sensational...

From now on, start focusing on things to do to match your dreams and achieve your goals. Other thinking or actions will just mess up your schedule and mind... so just move on.

人生有高有低才有趣吧. Thats true. I guess its just part of life. What is life if you do not have ups and downs? God is secretly planning ahead for us =) Enjoy life!

Joyce

Uncle biu said...

WELCOME BACK!

今早看到妳的"月刊"重出,興奮莫名。真似以前等住睇金庸小說,披頭四唱片,號外"期刊"...(以脫期出名...),望穿秋水。我每天都在"報攤"溜覽,但都失望而回。妳想,今天對我而言,真係好開始。(While I'm writing this, I'm listening to MJ's "Heal the World"....the words & music are soothing...make it a better place for you & for me...)

等左咁耐,好彩都冇令我失望,水準依然,文字簡練,傷感之餘又略帶幽默。(不枉妳睇咁多亦舒,林夕)自省自覺,看來真的走出迷惘喎。Keep moving!

愛之深,責之切!

Take care!
Inspector biu

P.S.妳睇左POLAROID exhibition 未呀?羨慕死我。

還有,妳有冇睇近幾期MPW既卓韻芝奇遇記?She seemed to have a similar experience like you...Kai ma & I thought that these articles might enlighten you.

Unknown said...

i moved on too :)
best of luck
xx

Cha Siu said...

ermmmm....i dunno whether i should leave a very deep msg as well...

but all i want to say is glad u have found a way out!

add oil and dun dun give up!

Lang said...

Sun baby!
good that u have moved on and found your way!!=) I feel really touched when I read this post as well..
I feel really glad as ur frd u have grown up laa..keep it up and dun give up!!=)
Love ya Xxx

Anonymous said...

not only 卓韻芝, i also have a similar experience like u do.

good to hear that u r back on track!

joyce said...

i saw 現成邀大家做我的監督,定期 「檢查, then i pressed the 'engine start; button waiting hoping there is something , you know...something that will pops up to say like... new life 5 days or something like that, hahahha
anyways, nei jo mud gum deep. not used to this gum deep gei you, the booooo i know hai dai lung bak chi sort sort they ga wor. well, you are being emotional , acting like a real women now la...like me. i'm a grown up women who san fart chut nui yan may :) keep it up. i always say, karen gum smart, kui duc ga la. nei ng ho make people say ngo tai chor a!! i know you are capable. because i'm here to support you whenever whereever whatever!!!!!



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Anonymous said...

I pressed the red button as well... Strange... I saw many smiling faces in mind.... 無聊人